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August 2, 2003 at 12:00 AM
Damn, i don\'t know how to comment of that. It makes me angry,and ashamed. ashamed to be human.
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August 2, 2003 at 12:00 AM
Damn! That was...damn! I don\'t kno! That poem that you did, I have a younger sister, and I kno that poem will fit her exactly, you see she was almost raped by her bestfriend, and he made her feel all those things, also she still lives in fear that you kno one day he\'ll come after, but she still goes on, and I admire her for that. And I admire you for putting this up. I also know a few people that have been raped and other people who just cut themselves to either help with the pain, or add more to it (that\'s what I believe, that cutting urself doesn\'t take the pain away, it just adds more, it makes you feel,...it just makes you feel!) I\'m gonna ask you a question, you don\'t have to asnwer if you don\'t want, I\'m just wondering when people make fun of rape or anything to that measure, what do you think? I kno what I think and that\'s there idoits, immature and they need to learn somethings! Same goes for my sister.
I\'m not giving you my pity or anything, because that\'s something you probably don\'t need from another person, even one you don\'t know. I just want to give you my understanding. I have never been raped myself, and your probably wondering how she can understand, it\'s just something that I can, after what happened to my sister, I didn\'t pity her, I didn\'t do anything, I didn\'t feel anything! That\'s why I understand.
But I think no one can understand what truly goes on, everyone is different and everyone feels different things, and everyone finds different ways of dealing with rape.
And you can never truly explain what happened, it\'s like relieving the whole incident again and no one wants to go thru that experience again, its also, like you said, how do you explain. It was hard enough as it is, how do you explain to someone how you feel, why you did what you did. NO one should pass judgement on a person who has been raped, for any reason, they\'re not them, they don\'t kno...they just don\'t know!
I just wanted to say that it takes a lot of guts to do what you did and again, I admire you for that.
PK
kitana82483@aol.com
PS Also, 1 more question. What do you wish would happen to the guy(s) that did that to you?
Again, don\'t need to answer.
I\'m not giving you my pity or anything, because that\'s something you probably don\'t need from another person, even one you don\'t know. I just want to give you my understanding. I have never been raped myself, and your probably wondering how she can understand, it\'s just something that I can, after what happened to my sister, I didn\'t pity her, I didn\'t do anything, I didn\'t feel anything! That\'s why I understand.
But I think no one can understand what truly goes on, everyone is different and everyone feels different things, and everyone finds different ways of dealing with rape.
And you can never truly explain what happened, it\'s like relieving the whole incident again and no one wants to go thru that experience again, its also, like you said, how do you explain. It was hard enough as it is, how do you explain to someone how you feel, why you did what you did. NO one should pass judgement on a person who has been raped, for any reason, they\'re not them, they don\'t kno...they just don\'t know!
I just wanted to say that it takes a lot of guts to do what you did and again, I admire you for that.
PK
kitana82483@aol.com
PS Also, 1 more question. What do you wish would happen to the guy(s) that did that to you?
Again, don\'t need to answer.
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August 2, 2003 at 12:00 AM
First I applaud you for having the courage to write about such a brutual, spirit killing situation as rape. It takes a lot of gumption to be able to do this.
Second it take bravery to post it on a site such as this, and perhaps a bit of caution. Here you see stories of rape, abuse, molestation, incest, sadism and other sexual activities that are in reality when viewed in the psychiatric and/or legal field are labeled as inappropriate and criminal (as they should be)
People need to realize that rape is a crime, an phyiscal and mental attack on a person, not a sexual act in the least bit. It is damaging to the psyche and the spirit as well as the body and rarely are reprecussions examined or the aftermath felt in the fanfic world.
I do hope that you have gotten counseling and have worked through issues dealing with this (I know there is not a quick fix, that is only in the realm of fantasy) and that you do not get flames or rude comments.
I did not read the story with a critical eye looking for gramma mis mistakes. That is not why this was written. It was written for expression, for healing and to have a voice heard.
Andrian
Second it take bravery to post it on a site such as this, and perhaps a bit of caution. Here you see stories of rape, abuse, molestation, incest, sadism and other sexual activities that are in reality when viewed in the psychiatric and/or legal field are labeled as inappropriate and criminal (as they should be)
People need to realize that rape is a crime, an phyiscal and mental attack on a person, not a sexual act in the least bit. It is damaging to the psyche and the spirit as well as the body and rarely are reprecussions examined or the aftermath felt in the fanfic world.
I do hope that you have gotten counseling and have worked through issues dealing with this (I know there is not a quick fix, that is only in the realm of fantasy) and that you do not get flames or rude comments.
I did not read the story with a critical eye looking for gramma mis mistakes. That is not why this was written. It was written for expression, for healing and to have a voice heard.
Andrian
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August 2, 2003 at 12:00 AM
I just wanted to say I admire the courage it must have taken to write something as personal as this and then to share it with the world. I hope you manage to find theragerage and inspiration to continue this story because I think many people would benefit from reading how your ordeal made you feel and how you coped afterwards.
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August 2, 2003 at 12:00 AM
Honey, I just wanted to say that you are a very strong and brave person to post something this personal. I hope that by posting this you have healed a little more. I\'ve never been raped, so I can\'t truely understand, but I hope that you find or have found some peace and happiness again. All I can say is keep surviving and hold your happiness close to your heart. It\'s all any of us can do.
Love and good luck,
Kel
P.S. Here\'s hopin\' somebody cuts his balls off with a r spo spoon! ;)
Love and good luck,
Kel
P.S. Here\'s hopin\' somebody cuts his balls off with a r spo spoon! ;)
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August 2, 2003 at 12:00 AM
Friends of mine who were raped give a similar recount -and i myself have had some bad experiences. im so sorry you went though this. i send you my love (even though you dont know me). btw, please continue, id like to hear how this story makes out.